人生的第一位好朋友 - 書

兒子的閱讀史大概是從幾個月的時候開始的，一開始看布書、洗澡、觸摸書，一歲兩個月之后，開始看紙質(zhì)書。然而，如今我能歸納總結(jié)的只有英文閱讀。因為我家爺爺奶奶都很有耐心，白天會給孩子讀很多中文故事，所以我對于中文的閱讀沒有特別費力，有時間就讀一讀，享受親子時光罷了。而英文閱讀是在2歲4個月之后開始的，開始的不算太早。但是我從他2歲6個月以后，就認真的記錄了我們一起讀過的每一本英文書，所以對于英文閱讀的整個脈絡(luò)還比較清晰，中文就已經(jīng)完全不記得了。。。

關(guān)于英文閱讀，今天想談兩點，一是兒子喜歡過的那些書，二是曾經(jīng)遇到過的一段排斥期。

從2015-6-11日至2017-3-31日，親子閱讀共347本書，一共讀了1655遍。數(shù)字看上去好像很驚人，其實是日積月累而已。所以先來看一看閱讀總榜。高居榜首的是Lulu Loves Shapes，讀過34遍！

第2、3、4名來自同一本書，這是一本合集。

第5、6名是國家地理的First big book of the ocean和Julia Donaldson與Nick Sharratt合作的wriggle and roar。 

第7、8名是Audrey Wood的24 robbers和卡爺爺?shù)膒apa，please get the moon for me。

第9名是一本分級，biscuit。

第10名是five little men in a flying saucer。

相信大家也看出來了，相對來說，繪本占據(jù)了大多數(shù)。沒辦法，我們家孩子對分級就是沒有繪本喜歡，所以我打算就把分級真的都留著給他自主閱讀用了。

看到這些，大家可能會覺得，哈，好厲害，孩子好棒！然而在我給兒子開啟了英文閱讀的五個月后，我們遇到了排斥期。其實剛開始的時候，倒真的沒怎么排斥。開啟他英文閱讀的是卡爺爺，Draw me a star， Little Cloud還有棕熊。但是，在五個月后，他忽然開始排斥英文繪本了。以前每天問他，要不要去講故事，都很開心的跑去等著，忽然就變成回答說，不要！但講中文故事，還是要的。

我不想讓他覺得英文是一種學(xué)習(xí)，是一種負擔(dān)。所以就開始嘗試了很多方法。

1. 有時候給他看動畫片，因為故事不要聽，動畫片還是要看的。但是又擔(dān)心他遺傳了我的近視，常看電視對眼睛不好。

2. 先把他騙進房間玩，過一會，我就說，我要讀這本書了。他會說，我不要聽，不要聽！我就說，好的，那你繼續(xù)玩吧，我要讀一下這本書。然后我就自己開始讀，他呢，可能已經(jīng)養(yǎng)成了愛看書的習(xí)慣，雖然喊著不要不要，聽見真的讀了，還是忍不住靠過來一起看書。但念完一本馬上又不要看了。

3. 我買了好多好多新書。每天回家就問他，要不要來念這本新書??？答案總是肯定的。

4. 下載了嘰里呱啦，放里面的兒歌給他聽，結(jié)果他說，這些歌太難聽了?。?！ 所以我到現(xiàn)在都沒有用嘰里呱啦或其他手機程序給孩子學(xué)過英語。

5. 晚上，天天先脫好衣服，躺在被窩里吃奶瓶，然后才刷牙睡覺。在他吃奶的時候，是無力反抗的，于是我就趁這個時候放一些給他講過的故事的音頻聽，比如I am系列。

后來有一天我和他一起畫蘋果樹的時候，他忽然說，my tree is full of apples。讓我很是驚訝，一句完整的句子，用的恰到好處，這正是I am系列里的一句原文。 就這樣，過了大概快2個月，天天對英文的興趣又回來了，每天晚上又是講完一本要一本的節(jié)奏了。

當(dāng)然我的這些方法不一定適合所有孩子，最了解孩子的，當(dāng)然是親爹親媽，所以我想說的是，大家一定要根據(jù)自己孩子的喜好來幫助孩子度過各種困難的階段。

最后，我來貼一下我的書單吧。剛啟蒙的前半年讀過的書如下。

brown bear

twinkle twinkle elmo

培生預(yù)備級

five little men in a flying saucer

from head to toe 

five little ducks

the wheelson the bus

go away mr wolf

The old alligator

draw me a star

小豬小象

木偶奇遇記

papa，please get the moon for me

does kangaroo have a mother，too

little cloud

小毛人的七個故事合集

pete the cat and the bad banana

biscuit

Happy Birthday Biscuit

biscuit visits the big city

biscuit‘s big friend

I‘m a bunny

lulu loves shapes

all by myself

going to the sea park

愛心小鵝系列

the princess and the dragon

Hop On Pop

Time of Wonder

going to fire house

snowball soup

one ted falls out of bed

飛屋環(huán)游記

學(xué)樂的I am系列

one mole digging a hole

chocolate mousse for greedy goose

hippo has a hat

biscuit goes to school

room on the broom

The snail and the whale

Toddle Waddle

Finding Nemo

Freddie and the fairy

I was so mad

just shopping with mom

Scat, cat

Pedro's burro

Digger the dinosaur

Digger the dinosaur and cake mistake

beach race

rocky road

amazing machines系列

clifford's manner

may I have a cookie

First big book of the ocean

how elephants lost their wings

The lion and the mouse

Brer rabbit and the blackberry bush

The little red hen

The little giraffe

I spy a funny frog

The witch next door

啟蒙7-12月讀過的書。

gruffalo's child

charlie cook's favorate book

wriggle and roar

Unicorn wings

Winnie the witch

Please write back

The best yard sale

little kids first big book of space

The Big Hungry Bear

Balloonia

Scaredy Cats

Tooth fairy

Goat goes to playgroup

24 robbers

Wake up do, Lydia Lou

Presto Change-O

Swimmy

How the camel got its hump

The littlest christmas tree

Daddy is my hero

Harry and the Dinosaurs Play Hide-and-Seek

Kipper

Kipper‘s birthday

Kipper‘s snowy day

Kipper’s toy box

One year with kipper

Winnie's magic wand

Kipper‘s A to Z

Kipper’s monster

I am the music man

Dry bones

Down by the station

Polar bear, polar bear, what do you see?

Kipper's christmas eve

Cooper's big bear hug

Five little monkeys jumping on the bed

Five little monkeys sitting in the tree

is your mama a llama

Eric Carle's ABC

King donkey ears

啟蒙13-18個月。

Dealing with feeling angry

Something from nothing

Emma Kate

Lost！

Monday is one day

小熊波比

Biscuit and the baby

Biscuit's Day at the Farm

Five little monkeys with nothing to do

Five little monkeys bake a birthday cake

Five little monkeys wash the car

The Very Hungry Caterpillar

Brain Quest Workbook

Spring Addition

Winter Wonderland

Going to the Dentist

This is serious Recycling to rescue

Eggbert

What a bad dream

Lulu’s clothes

Lulu’s loo

Lulu’s shoes

Lulu’s lunch

Shine with the very lonely firefly

A green, green garden

I spy - Santa Claus

Who Lives Here?

The Smartest Giant in Town

Noah's ark

Hippo and Rabbit in 3 more tales

Groundhog Weather School

Two crazy pigs

We Just Moved!

Hippo and Rabbit in three short tales

National Geographic kids之little kids first big book of dinosaurs

The sea mice and stars

Tractor and digger save the day

The most precious thing

Why turtle's shell is cracked

Meggie Moon

Why mosquitoes buzz in people's ears

Me and my place in space

Me counting time

Me on the map

粉豬

maisy系列

Help! I really mean it!

Scuffy

The mixed-up chameleon

The three little pigs

Mushroom in the rain

handa's surprise

Inside Outside Upside Down

The very busy spider

The Tiger Who Came to Tea

The carrot seed

The little old lady who was not afraid of anything

Panda bear，panda bear，what do you see

Baby bear，baby bear，what do you see

Where's my teddy

How do lions say I love you

I spy candy cane

A squash and a squeeze

Freight Train

I spy skeleton

The snowy day

The gruffalo

Treasury of human body

The way back home

How to catch a star

Mrs. McNosh hangs up her wash

Lost and Found

I am really，really concentrating

Turn it up, Doris

鱷魚怕怕，牙醫(yī)怕怕

Meg’s Veg

Mister seahorse

Wind-up train book

Meg up the creek

Mog at the zoo

Sheila Rae's peppermint stick

Me on the map

Julius's candy corn

The grouchy ladybug

Excuse me

If you give a pig a pancake

If you give a moosee a muffin

If you take a mouse to school

If you give a mouse a cookie

How to hide a butterfly

How to hide a meadow frog

How to hide a crocodile

Robots, robots, everywhere

啟蒙19-24個月。

All about faces

The foggy foggy forest

Wemberly's ice-cream star

Charlie is broken

Rain

Meg and Mog

Again

I can share

Lilly's chocolate heart

Meg and the pirate

Wibbly Pig likes dancing

Five little monkeys play hide-and-seek

I'm going to save a panda

Harry and the bucketful of dinosaurs

Don't put your finger in the jelly, nelly

high five雜志

pirate pete

First big book of the ocean

The Stars

Where the wild things are

Zin Zin Zin a violin

Kali's song

Kick

How to brush your teeth

Curious George goes to chocolate factory

Curious George and the puppies

Rosie's hat

Curious George makes pancakes

Curious George and the hot air balloon

Curious George's dream

Harold and the Purple Crayon

The christmas story

Busy home

Santa's busy night

A boot, a hat, now who is that

Ice skating

Little star

Dora's pirate adventure

Great Choice, Camille

But excuse me that is my book

The color of us

Curious George feeds the animals

Curious George in the snow

The little bear book

If I ran the circus

Alice in wonderland

Curious George goes to a movie

Look inside sports

2017年的1月開始，我們開始了少量的自主閱讀。目前就讀過圖一的前6本，I can read里tug the pup， set 1的前三本，外加一本starfall網(wǎng)站上的小故事。這里就不贅述啦，也許明年可以來分享下自主閱讀的書單。

最后分享我們一起讀故事的一段音頻吧。http://xima.tv/BNn3Nm